Self Esteem Therapy NYC & Nearby Areas | Confidence & Body Image

Low self-esteem isn’t a flaw, it's a learned response to experiences that taught you to doubt yourself, stay small, or prioritize others over your own needs. You may be capable, insightful, and creative, yet struggle to trust your choices, follow through on what matters to you, or feel confident taking up space in your life. Or, you may appear confident and capable on the outside while internally feeling self-doubt, pressure to perform, or a quiet sense of “not enough.” For many women, low self-esteem also shows up through body image struggles, disordered eating patterns, difficulty trusting themselves, or feeling disconnected from their own needs and desires.


This kind of therapy is about reclaiming your sense of agency and inner authority. Through my Somatic & Movement therapy, I support women in developing embodied confidence learning to feel grounded in their bodies, trust their instincts, and move toward their goals with clarity and self-belief. This work isn’t just about feeling better about yourself; it’s about feeling empowered to act, choose, and lead your life from the inside out.

What is self esteem therapy?

Self-esteem therapy is a body-centered approach focused on rebuilding self-trust, confidence, and personal agency. Rather than trying to “fix” negative thoughts or force positive thinking, this work helps you develop a felt sense of self-worth that lives in your body, not just your head. Through somatic practices, embodiment work, and relational support, self-esteem therapy also addresses how you experience and relate to your body. This includes working with body image, self-criticism, or disconnection from physical cues that can undermine confidence and self-trust. Over time, the work strengthens self-efficacy your ability to trust yourself, make choices, follow through, and take up space so empowerment becomes something you feel and embody, not just something you think about.

 Most common symptoms of low self-esteem

Many clients seek self-esteem therapy when they begin to notice patterns like:

  • Chronic self-doubt: questioning your decisions, second-guessing yourself, or feeling unsure of your value or place in relationships or work
  • People-pleasing: prioritizing others’ needs to avoid conflict, rejection, or disapproval, often at the expense of your own
  • Perfectionism: pressure to be “good,” “likable,” capable, or put-together, with little room for mistakes, rest, or self-compassion
  • Negative self-talk: a persistent inner voice that criticizes your appearance, intelligence, worth, or competence, even when there’s evidence to the contrary
  • Body image struggles: feeling disconnected from your body, overly critical of your appearance, preoccupied with how you look, or unsure how to feel comfortable or at ease in your physical self
  • Disordered eating patterns: using food to cope with emotions, cycles of restriction and overeating, rigid food rules, loss of trust in hunger or fullness cues, or feeling a sense of control or shame around eating
  • Fear of vulnerability: holding back your needs, desires, or opinions to avoid judgment or feeling exposed
  • Difficulty receiving support: believing you should handle everything on your own or feeling uncomfortable depending on others
  • Low self-efficacy: having ideas, goals, or creative impulses but struggling to trust yourself to follow through, take up space, or act on what you want

If these patterns resonate, self-esteem therapy can help you understand how they formed—and support you in rebuilding self-trust, body respect, and a more empowered relationship with yourself.

 How do I know if I need self esteem therapy?

You may benefit from self-esteem therapy if:

  • You struggle to believe you’re worthy or deserving, even when others see your strengths
  • You minimize your achievements or consistently doubt yourself
  • You feel “too much” or “not enough” in relationships
  • You avoid risks, visibility, or opportunities because of fear of failure or self-doubt
  • You shut down, withdraw, or lose your voice when emotions feel big
  • You have a hard time trusting your needs, boundaries, or inner guidance
  • You feel disconnected from your body, uncomfortable being seen, or critical of how you look
  • You want to feel more confident, grounded, and able to move through life with self-trust

Self-esteem therapy helps you reconnect with your internal sense of worth not by pushing yourself to be different, but by rebuilding comfort, trust, and confidence within your body. As your nervous system feels more supported, empowerment becomes something you can feel allowing you to take up space, make choices, and act on your own behalf with greater ease.

How I support you with self esteem therapy NYC & nearby areas

My approach blends embodiment work, somatic awareness, and relational healing to help you move toward deeper confidence and self-trust. Together, we focus on:

  • Somatic therapy to understand and shift the body-based roots of insecurity.
  • Embodiment practices to reconnect you with strength, presence, and agency.
  • Boundary work to help you express your needs without guilt.
  • Inner child and parts work to heal tender places shaped by past relationships.
  • Nervous system regulation to reduce overwhelm and build emotional resilience.
  • Relational support to help you experience healthy connection and authenticity.

Self esteem therapy becomes a space where confidence feels less like a performance, and more like something your body learns to embody naturally.

What topics can we talk about in self esteem therapy

Self-esteem therapy can support you if you’re navigating things like:

  • Feeling “not enough” no matter what you do: living with shame, self-criticism, or the sense that you have to earn your worth
  • Wanting to feel more confident but not knowing how: struggling to trust your strengths, instincts, or inner voice
  • Saying yes when you mean no: people-pleasing, guilt around your needs, or difficulty setting boundaries
  • Holding back your voice: wanting to speak up, be seen, or take up space but feeling afraid, unsure, or self-conscious
  • Feeling uncomfortable in your body: body image struggles, disconnection from physical cues, or not feeling fully at home or comfortable in your own skin
  • Repeating relationship patterns: noticing how low self-worth shows up in dating, partnerships, or how you relate to others
  • Losing yourself in roles or expectations: feeling defined by perfectionism, caregiving, or who you’re supposed to be rather than who you actually are

You don’t need to have the right words or a clear goal before we begin. We start with what feels most present in your life now and work toward building confidence, clarity, and a more empowered relationship with yourself.

How it works

Initial consultation


We’ll connect for a free consultation to see if we’re a good fit. Here we’ll briefly talk through what you’re needing, my approach and address any logistical questions.


Getting started


You’ll get access to my secure client portal, where you’ll be able to schedule your first appointment and complete intake paperwork so I can understand your history, context, and needs a little more.


Building our foundation


We’ll begin with at least four consecutive sessions. This gives us time to establish our working relationship, identify your goals, and see the full picture of what it’s like to be you. During this phase, we’ll also explore whether EMDR could be a good fit for your healing process, or if other somatic and movement-based approaches might better support your needs. From there, we can adjust frequency together, and if I think less often isn’t in your best interest, I’ll let you know with a clear clinical recommendation.


Self esteem therapy specialist in NYC & nearby areas

I’m Stefanie Raccuglia, a somatic therapist and embodiment practitioner supporting women who feel weighed down by self-doubt, shame, or the pressure to keep it all together. I help clients understand the deeper emotional and nervous system patterns beneath low self-esteem and guide them toward grounded confidence, relational clarity, and a more empowered relationship with themselves. Through somatic therapy, movement, and embodied healing, we build confidence from the inside out slowly, gently, and with deep respect for your story.

Tips and resources for coping with low self-esteem before starting therapy

If you’re struggling with self-esteem, there are gentle ways to begin reconnecting with your sense of worth—without pushing yourself or trying to change everything at once. These practices are about building small moments of steadiness, agency, and self-trust.


  • Pause and name what you’re feeling: simply noticing your emotional experience can soften self-judgment and create space for choice.
  • Ground through the senses: sound, touch, breath, and movement can help regulate your nervous system and bring you back into your body.
  • Practice small boundaries: even tiny, everyday “no’s” help build confidence and reinforce that your needs matter.
  • Notice self-criticism with compassion: when harsh thoughts show up, meet them with curiosity rather than correction—you’re unlearning old patterns.
  • Move gently: stretching, shaking, or slow swaying can release tension and help you feel more comfortable in your own skin.
  • Write from the body: journaling about sensations or emotions—rather than judgments—can strengthen self-awareness and self-trust.
  • Seek supportive connection: spending time with people who feel steady, respectful, and encouraging helps reinforce your inner foundation.

These tools aren’t a replacement for therapy, but they can help you feel more grounded, resourced, and empowered as you begin the process.

Hi there, I´m Stefanie Raccuglia

Clinically, I'm a Licensed Professional Counselor (CO), Licensed Mental Health Counselor (NY), Registered Dance/Movement Therapist, and EMDRIA Certified EMDR therapist.

Psychotherapy in Colorado and New York - Pricing

  • Individual Therapy

    • 55–60 minute sessions — ongoing weekly or biweekly therapy.
    • 85–90 minute sessions — extra time for EMDR or when you want more room to process and integrate.
    • Half-day intensives — immersive, extended sessions where you can experience, move, and process at a deeper embodied pace, then circle back to integrate. These offer a reset that weekly therapy alone can’t always reach.

    *Rates vary by state. We’ll go over exact rates during your free initial consultation, along with any options for sliding scale (limited spots) and out-of-network reimbursement.

  • Professional Consultation & Supervision

    For therapists, coaches, and providers who want to deepen their clinical work.


    • EMDR Consultation — As an EMDRIA Consultant-in-Training, I provide consultation hours that count toward EMDRIA certification. Together we’ll refine your skills, strengthen case conceptualization, and grow your confidence with this modality.
    • Embodied Professional Consultation — For providers who want to integrate a somatic lens into their work. We’ll explore interventions, case material, and professional presence from an embodied perspective, helping you expand beyond cognitive approaches and bring the body more fully into the room.

FAQ

How long does self esteem therapy take to work?

Self esteem therapy varies for each person. Many clients begin noticing shifts within a few months as they learn to regulate their nervous system and challenge old beliefs. The goal is sustainable change, not quick fixes.

Can self esteem therapy help with relationship problems?

Yes. Low self-esteem often affects how you communicate, set boundaries, or choose partners. Therapy helps you feel more grounded in connection and build healthier relational patterns.

Is self esteem therapy the same as confidence coaching?

Not exactly. Confidence coaching focuses on behavior; self esteem therapy works with the emotional and somatic roots of worth, helping you create internal change rather than perform confidence.

What causes low self-esteem?

Low self-esteem can come from childhood experiences, trauma, relationships, cultural messaging, or chronic stress. Therapy helps you understand these origins and gently shift the patterns they created.

How does somatic therapy help with low self-esteem?

Somatic therapy addresses the body-based reactions, tension, shutdown, fear that shape your self-worth. By regulating the nervous system, clients feel more grounded, open, and capable of building confidence from within.

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