Burnout Therapy NYC & Nearby Areas | Compassion Fatigue Treatment
Burnout isn’t just “being tired.” It’s what happens when caring, capable people carry too much responsibility, emotional labor, and pressure for too long—often without enough restoration or support. You may still be functioning, showing up, and getting things done, while feeling depleted, flat, or disconnected from your sense of aliveness. If you’ve been running on empty, pushing through overwhelm, or wondering why rest doesn’t seem to help anymore, it’s not a personal failure. It’s a sign that your capacity has been stretched beyond what’s sustainable. Through my Somatic & Movement Therapy approach, I support women, caregivers, helping professionals, high-achievers, and creatives in recovering from burnout and compassion fatigue. Our work focuses on restoring energy, reconnecting you to your body and sense of meaning, and shifting from empathy that drains you to compassion that includes boundaries and self-connection. Together, we work toward ways of caring for yourself and others that are sustainable, embodied, and life-giving.
What is therapy for burnout?
Therapy for burnout helps you understand and address the emotional, physical, and relational toll of chronic overextension. Burnout isn’t solved by taking a weekend off or pushing through a little longer; it develops when your capacity has been stretched beyond what your system can sustainably restore. Over time, this can lead to exhaustion, numbness, irritability, loss of motivation, and a disconnect from the parts of you that once felt engaged, creative, and alive.
For many helping professionals and caregivers, burnout is compounded by compassion fatigue or secondary trauma, the cumulative impact of witnessing, holding, and responding to others’ pain without adequate support, boundaries, or replenishment. You don’t need to work in a helping profession to experience this, though. Anyone who has been emotionally responsible, deeply invested, or consistently “holding it together” for others can reach a similar point of depletion.
My approach is somatic, restorative, and systems-aware. Rather than asking you to give more or “manage stress better,” we focus on replenishing what’s been depleted. This includes working with the body to release accumulated tension, recalibrate boundaries, and shift from empathy that drains you to compassion that allows care without collapse. Together, we slow things down in a meaningful way supporting a return to energy, clarity, and a sense of aliveness that feels sustainable in the context of your real life.
Most common symptoms of burnout
Many people seek therapy for burnout when exhaustion has quietly become their “normal.” Rather than feeling acutely distressed, you may feel worn down, flat, or disconnected—going through the motions while something essential feels missing. Common experiences include:
- Chronic fatigue: feeling tired no matter how much you sleep or rest, with energy that never quite returns
- Emotional depletion: feeling numb, irritable, or easily overwhelmed by things that once felt manageable
- Loss of motivation or meaning: struggling to care about work, relationships, or activities that used to matter
- Hyper-independence: feeling pressure to handle everything yourself or to be the one who keeps things running
- Overgiving or people-pleasing: consistently putting others’ needs first, even when you’re already depleted
- Physical signs of burnout: headaches, muscle tension, digestive issues, heaviness, or a sense of shutdown in the body
- Disconnection: feeling distant from your body, emotions, creativity, or the people around you
- Perfectionism under strain: feeling like nothing you do is ever enough, even as your capacity continues to shrink
- Burnout can also co-exist with or resemble anxiety and depression. You might notice increased worry, irritability, low mood, withdrawal, or a sense of hopelessness—especially when your system has been under sustained pressure without adequate rest, support, or replenishment. In these cases, anxiety or depressive symptoms are often signals of prolonged depletion rather than separate or isolated problems.
Burnout can also co-exist with or resemble anxiety and depression. You might notice increased worry, irritability, low mood, withdrawal, or a sense of hopelessness especially when your system has been under sustained pressure without adequate rest, support, or replenishment. In these cases, anxiety or depressive symptoms are often signals of prolonged depletion rather than separate or isolated problems.
Burnout often shows up not as collapse, but as a slow erosion of energy, clarity, and joy. Therapy for burnout helps you reconnect with yourself in ways that are restorative and sustainable so replenishment becomes possible, not another thing to push through.
How do I know if I need therapy for burnout?
You may benefit from therapy for burnout if:
- You’re exhausted no matter how much you rest.
- You feel overwhelmed by simple tasks or decisions.
- You’ve lost interest in activities that used to bring joy.
- You feel trapped in a cycle of productivity, pressure, or self-criticism.
- You’re struggling with compassion fatigue from caregiving or emotional labor.
- You can’t remember the last time you felt truly rested.
- You’re functioning on autopilot or constantly bracing for the next demand.
- You keep giving to others while abandoning your own needs.
If you’re nodding along, you don’t need to push through alone. Your body is asking for support, not more pressure.
How I support you with therapy for burnout NYC & nearby areas
My approach is slow, grounding, and deeply body-centered. Burnout healing requires more than mindset shifts, it requires helping your nervous system reset, your body soften, and your emotional capacity rebuild. Together, we work with:
- Somatic therapy to reduce overwhelm and help your system settle.
- Movement-based practices to release tension and reconnect with your body’s energy.
- Boundary and relational work to prevent overgiving and emotional depletion.
- Nervous system regulation tools to restore calm and resilience.
- Compassionate exploration of the patterns that led to burnout in the first place.
- Creative and expressive practices to rediscover play, joy, and internal space.
Healing burnout is not about trying harder, it’s about creating a life that supports you instead of draining you.
What topics can we talk about in burnout therapy?
Burnout therapy can support you in:
- Restoring emotional capacity: moving out of compassion fatigue and reconnecting with care that doesn’t leave you depleted
- Creating boundaries that feel sustainable: learning how to protect your time and energy while staying connected and engaged
- Rebalancing overgiving patterns: shifting the pressure to do more than you can realistically hold and learning how to receive support
- Recovering from chronic overload: helping your system move out of constant urgency and into a steadier, more responsive rhythm
- Softening perfectionism and self-criticism: reducing internal pressure so effort and rest can coexist without guilt
- Navigating work-related burnout: finding clarity, agency, and grounding in the face of overwork, emotionally demanding roles, or creative depletion
- Relearning rest and pleasure: rebuilding a sense of safety around slowing down, enjoying your life, and accessing moments of ease
You don’t need to be completely depleted to begin this work. Burnout therapy helps you move toward a life that feels more spacious, energized, and aligned so your capacity to care, create, and contribute can be sustained over time.
How it works
Initial consultation
We’ll connect for a free consultation to see if we’re a good fit. Here we’ll briefly talk through what you’re needing, my approach and address any logistical questions.
Getting started
You’ll get access to my secure client portal, where you’ll be able to schedule your first appointment and complete intake paperwork so I can understand your history, context, and needs a little more.
Building our foundation
We’ll begin with at least four consecutive sessions. This gives us time to establish our working relationship, identify your goals, and see the full picture of what it’s like to be you. During this phase, we’ll also explore whether EMDR could be a good fit for your healing process, or if other somatic and movement-based approaches might better support your needs. From there, we can adjust frequency together, and if I think less often isn’t in your best interest, I’ll let you know with a clear clinical recommendation.
Burnout therapy specialist in NYC & nearby areas
I’m Stefanie Raccuglia, a somatic therapist specializing in burnout, compassion fatigue, and the emotional patterns that leave women feeling depleted, disconnected, or constantly “on.” I work with caregivers, leaders, creatives, and sensitive high-achievers who’ve learned to push through exhaustion or silence their own needs. Through somatic therapy, nervous system regulation, and gentle movement practices, I help you rebuild energy, reconnect with your body, and create sustainable habits that support long-term well-being.
Tips & resources for coping with burnout before starting therapy
If you’re experiencing burnout, support often comes less from adding practices and more from reducing what’s draining you and reconnecting with what restores capacity. These ideas are meant to help you begin shifting out of constant overextension.
Audit your energy, not your productivity: notice what consistently drains you versus what restores you even slightly. Burnout recovery starts with awareness of energy, not output.
- Stop “optimizing” your rest: let rest be unproductive. Resist the urge to make recovery efficient, earned, or measurable.
- Create recovery buffers: build small transitions between tasks or roles so your system isn’t constantly switching without pause.
- Reduce invisible labor: notice emotional, mental, or caretaking work you do automatically and experiment with doing less of it where possible.
- Revisit your values: ask yourself what still feels meaningful and what no longer aligns. Burnout often signals misalignment, not weakness.
- Allow incompletion: practice leaving something unfinished or imperfect to interrupt over-responsibility and chronic self-pressure.
- Seek replenishing connection: spend time with people or environments that feel restorative rather than demanding or draining.
These supports won’t resolve burnout on their own, but they can help interrupt cycles of depletion and create space for recovery to begin.

Hi there, I´m Stefanie Raccuglia
Clinically, I'm a Licensed Professional Counselor (CO), Licensed Mental Health Counselor (NY), Registered Dance/Movement Therapist, and EMDRIA Certified EMDR therapist.

Psychotherapy in Colorado and New York - Pricing
Individual Therapy
- 55–60 minute sessions — ongoing weekly or biweekly therapy.
- 85–90 minute sessions — extra time for EMDR or when you want more room to process and integrate.
- Half-day intensives — immersive, extended sessions where you can experience, move, and process at a deeper embodied pace, then circle back to integrate. These offer a reset that weekly therapy alone can’t always reach.
*Rates vary by state. We’ll go over exact rates during your free initial consultation, along with any options for sliding scale (limited spots) and out-of-network reimbursement.
Professional Consultation & Supervision
For therapists, coaches, and providers who want to deepen their clinical work.
- EMDR Consultation — As an EMDRIA Consultant-in-Training, I provide consultation hours that count toward EMDRIA certification. Together we’ll refine your skills, strengthen case conceptualization, and grow your confidence with this modality.
- Embodied Professional Consultation — For providers who want to integrate a somatic lens into their work. We’ll explore interventions, case material, and professional presence from an embodied perspective, helping you expand beyond cognitive approaches and bring the body more fully into the room.
FAQ
How long does burnout therapy usually take?
Burnout therapy timelines vary depending on how long you’ve been depleted, the level of emotional and physical load you’ve been carrying, and how supported your system has been. Many clients notice meaningful shifts within a few months, particularly in energy, clarity, and emotional capacity. Burnout therapy focuses on rebuilding capacity and vitality gradually, so changes are steady, sustainable, and not dependent on pushing yourself to recover faster.
Is burnout the same as depression?
Burnout and depression can share similar symptoms, such as fatigue, low motivation, and emotional numbness, but they are not the same. Burnout typically develops from chronic stress, emotional labor, over-responsibility, or prolonged overwork. Depression is a clinical mood condition that may exist alongside burnout but has different underlying factors. In burnout therapy, we take time to understand your full experience and support your emotional health without assuming a single diagnosis.
Why am I always tired even when I rest?
When burnout has been ongoing, rest alone often isn’t enough to restore energy. Your body may still be operating in effort, vigilance, or responsibility mode, even during downtime. This can make sleep or time off feel unrefreshing. Burnout therapy helps your body recover from prolonged overextension so rest can become truly restorative again.
Can burnout therapy help with work-related stress?
Yes. Burnout therapy is especially helpful for work-related burnout, including high-demand roles, helping professions, leadership positions, emotionally intense workplaces, and creative fields. Therapy can support you in understanding what’s draining your energy, clarifying boundaries, reducing emotional load, and finding more sustainable ways to engage with your work without losing your sense of purpose or identity.
What’s the difference between empathy fatigue and compassion fatigue?
Empathy fatigue often comes from absorbing others’ pain without enough boundaries, perspective, or self-connection. Over time, this can lead to exhaustion, irritability, numbness, or resentment. Compassion, by contrast, allows care with boundaries—remaining connected without losing yourself. Burnout therapy helps shift from empathy that drains you to compassion that is sustainable, protecting both your energy and your capacity to care.
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What’s the difference between empathy fatigue and compassion fatigue?
